It's hard for guys to get into the Christian life I think. I blame it on the fact that we don't want to be vulnerable to another male figure, or maybe because we have the need to work for what we are given, like salvation. Either way, it's hard. Guys are prideful and hate the idea of depending on someone else when we want to be in charge. But in charge of what, our lives? I, like most of us, need to be reminded that my life is not my own.